Motherhood is usually sold to us as a pastel dream of matching baby clothes, a village that magically shows up to help, financial freedom, and a partner holding your hand through every hurdle. But for many of us, the reality is entirely different. I’m Jordan. I am a millennial mom of four navigating unexpected rare medical conditions, autism, and someone who knows what it feels like to be completely on your own with little ones depending on you. I became my own safety net and